Alternatives to medical transition
While some people benefit from medical transition there are various other options to consider as well.
Things like long hair and various types of clothing can be obtained without transitioning medically. If you don’t want to cross-dress you can look for clothing you like that isn’t stereotypically female.
If the goal is sex/relationships there are various other ways you can try to improve your dating success such as becoming more financially successful, making your personality more desireable, improving your appearence without medical transition etc. You might also simply need to lower your standards.
Presenting as a female digitally
A lot of social interactions today take place online allowing people to use an avatar that is very different from your real body. This allows you to in virtual spaces escape the constraints of biology.
If you just want to have a female presentation you can also opt for playing single player games as a female character. PC versions of games are often better for that purpose thanks to mods and some titles never got released for console to begin with. Noteable single-player games are
- Haydee (thanks to mods)
- Metroid prime triligy (can be emulated on PC but limited to 60fps unfortunately)
- Code Vein (thanks to mods such as io alt dress and sexy party dress)
- Mirrors Edge
- Allice madness returns
- Pleage tale of innocence
- Heroine rumble 2 (adult)
- Full Metal Schoolgirl
- Project Werewulf (adult)