Why Transition / Transmaxx
Do not let anyone gatekeep you from transitioning You may be in doubt and thus ask people close to you or a gender clinic “should you transition/ are you allowed” - this is not a good idea.
It’s very unlikely anyone close to you has a proper understanding of the consequences that come with transitioning, what the pros and cons will be for you. If your family of origin is transphobic just boymode and leave, you don’t need them in your life if they become a negative for you.
You have the right to rule over your own body, do not let any doctor or parent take that right away from you. If you cannot get an official prescription in time just order online it’s actually rather cheap. DIY HRT can be safer and more effective that official prescription
Transitioning might improve this
Transitioning might not improve this / negatively affects
Physical Characteristics
Your height is lower than 185cm, and preferably less than 176cmYour height is above 185cm
You are less than 20 years old
You are over 24 (most bones have fused)
Physical strength is less important to you than other qualities
You value or require physical strength for other goals
You would rather compete mentally or emotionally
Physical competition, grit, and drive is important for you
There's no family history of health issues that might affect HRT
You have illnesses that might affect successful transition or HRT
Appearance such as hair growth, skin health, and aging hold high value
Things like appearance do not matter to you at all
You desire for yourself female physical characteristics such as breasts
You are ok with your male physical characteristics
Mental Characteristics
You experience dysphoria, sometimes you wish you were a female or had female characteristicsYou only think about being male
You are excited by the thought of being you, but female
You are excited by the thought of being you, but more masculine
Gratification through female presentation like clothing is exciting
Female presentation is repulsive
Your demeanor / mannerisms are feminine, or you feel comfortable with feminine expression
Masculine expression is
Past trauma is associated with your masculine identity (emotional, mental, other)
You have not experienced any trauma as part of your identity
Compulsion for gratification through stimulation is preventing you from feeling "normal"
You can live daily life feeling "normal" without seeking stimulation
Social Characteristics
You would like / are envious of attention or standing out as a femaleAttention is of little importance to you
You experience little social support from communinities (add social support as a transitioning female)
Social communities and engagement as a male is working fine for you
Engagement with communities is only negative or destructive - there's no positive path to improve your life
You feel enriched by your interactions with supportive communities
Relationships (friends, family, romance) have been hard for you to develop and maintain as a male
You already have established family bonds you wouldn't change
You do not have good or fulfilling relationships with family (parents, extended, partners)
Your bonds with your family are positive and fulfilling
You don't feel any deep or lasting connection with your friends, you find it hard to make friends
It's easy for you to make friends
Your friends are interested in you being the best you can be and living a positive life
Friends are integral parts of your life and transitioning would make them leave
Your job is supportive of transition and might even pay for it
The job that you have relies on strength, or is not supportive of trans and you could not move or find another
Where you live (house, region, country) is accepting/supportive of transitioning
You would need to move or emigrate to successfully transition and can't/ couldn't
You feel blocked from accessing programs that would enrich your life due to male gender discrimination
You aren't interested in programs such as this
Male / mixed gender spaces are not comfortable to you and you feel like you don't belong
You already feel like you belong in mixed gender spaces
Finding a romantic partner has been a struggle, a game with low odds, and draining
You have no trouble finding romantic partnerships
Partners you have had in the past don't match your needs and you have to "fight" to keep them interested
Your partner matches your needs
You struggle with social interactions as an awkward male - when awkwardness as a female is a "cute" quality
Social interactions come easy to you